What I've Learned About Long Distance

I've been in a long distance relationship for 10 months now and I've learned a thing (or two) that I'd like to share.

1. It takes a lot of communication. A lot.
2. Don't give up when the going gets tough. And trust me, it'll be tough.
3. Treasure every moment you have with your loved one.
4. Write down any special comment or conversation you have. Those small notes will have to feed you through some long winters.
5. Say "I love you" often. And mean it.
6. Always have a plan for when you'll see each other next.
7. Think realistically about a long term plan for your relationship.
8. Fantasize about your relationship. It'll make it funner to day dream about, rather than missing him.
9. Keep communicating.
10. It's not always fun and sometimes it's a lot of work.
11. Send each other "selfies" on a regular basis. It's nice to see their face.
12. Share positive stories about him to your friends. They'll want to make sure you're happy.
13. It's ok to cry.
14. It's important to make each other laugh.
15. Don't ever give up communicating.
16. Take the time to share the boring details of your day. Those details are important.
17. Sometimes when it seems like there's no end in sight, remember that He has a plan for both of you and this is just part of the process.
18. It's all worth it when you see him for the first time in months. It's like your stomach and heart explodes into butterflies and confetti. Seriously.

This list is a work in progress. For those of you who have been in long distance relationships, I think you know what I'm talking about.

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